Out to get Black Pumps

As we’ve seen frequently through out our lives, well for the most of it, we almost always hear girls rant on about how there isn’t any good guys for the taking. They’re either in a relationship, have more extra baggage than an airport, straight up jerks or are digging men a little more than “usual”. Not to sound all prissy and cliche, but the dating scene is kinda like shopping.

You go out into the scene and you know exactly what you want, in this case, black pumps. But with all the distractions and selection shooting at you, you end up going home with blue flats. You try them on and their only good for a little while. But sad to say, you can always just return them unlike real guys. They tend to scar. haha But the problem here isn’t the jerky guys, the problem is we chose to chose the jerky guys. Like how we CHOSE the blue flats over the black pumps we were initially getting. There’s no one to blame, no you can’t blame the sales clerk, you only have yourself to blame. Don't be so hard on yourself, no matter what, guys are all oafs. It’s in their nature, just like how women think with emotions rather than logically. Which to some guys, can be annoying. Haha.

I know I’m still juvenile in this whole relationship seeking department, but I think it’s safe to say that I’ve witnessed a couple of these problems and even been in a couple of little dilemmas myself. But back to what I was saying, Ladies… It really is hard to find a kind, genuine guy out there, I feel you on that one.

My problem on the other hand are guys who are teasers and guys who do the do then ignore the hell out of you. What is the deal with that? Come on now! Igging is so high school.

Women generally like to chose the “bad boys” because it’s in our nature. We tend to seek for the men who we think is best fit to protect and secure us. Again this is generally speaking :] I don’t want any feminists egging on me. Leading people on is a malicious yet charming act. Why do people do it? Sometimes people don’t really know they do what they do but I’m assuming one does this act in order to create power of some kind. A power which you create feelings and vulnerability by acting nice and sweet, but in the end there wasn’t really anything there, so swoosh, in the trash you go.

But then again, women have an intuition. If a woman wants to be lead on and wants to believe the bull kaka, it’s because they want to. If you’re strong and you know yourself, you could delegate what you want to do and what relationship you have. Men treat you the way you allow them to treat you.. There’s always an occasional seduction going on but deep down I’m not forced into doing anything, but I do what I want because I chose to. And even though I shouldn’t feel this, but there are times where I regret, typically not on the action, but on the timing. Timing is super important but hey life is short, have fun but remember, if you rush into things, things will end faster. So keep it tasteful and slow it dowwwn :] But according to R.Kelly, “there aint nothing wrong, with a little bump and grind”

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